Sunday, December 18, 2016

LIFE IN PNG - Newsletter1

Due to limited internet, I have not been able to post updates on here as yet, so today I'm posting the 3 news letters we have written so far to get a glimpse into life here.

As I write it has just started raining and I just remembered I have washing on the line. Oh well.  The boys love it when it rains during the day here - often it rains just at night and the days are dry - so when it does rain in day time they love to run about in it, slide in the concrete drains, or make boats to float in the rushing water.  The compound now hosts a total of 9 boys (ages 12, 8, 7, 7, 6, 5, 4, 4, 3) and 6 girls (ages 9, 2, 2,1,1,0) so there is always activity going on, games to play, things to build, whatever it is that boys like to do. Most days a further 3-5 boys from other city mission families come to join in the fun as well.

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UPDATE 1
Wednesday marked a week since we first touched down in Lae. Already, so much has happened. I’m sure that some of you reading this now, have also caught glimpses into our life via Facebook, so not all of what you read will be new to all of you, but here is a tiny piece of our experience so far. When we landed in Brisbane, we had a chance to meet with Bob and Ann Epperson - the General Manager of Lae City Mission and his wife – as they were heading away from PNG for a six week break. We shared a meal, and Bob gave us a quick run down of what was in store for us. It began to sound like we were standing at the foot of a hill, and we had some climbing ahead of us.
Boys enjoyed their own screens on the plane!

Then sleep, wake, rush, catch another plane, and we were en route for Port Moresby. There, we were met by Ron – the CEO of City Mission PNG – and his assistant Dorothy, who also shared some food and tried to fill us in on what we were flying towards. The fog around the hill began to thin out, and we could see that we were at the foot of a mountain, with no way to go but up. Transfer to domestic, rush to catch a plane which was boarding early, and we were on the last leg of our trip. By this stage, our kids were beyond the point of exhaustion, and I had a moment where the adrenaline stopped, and knew that now I would have time to be tired. Now I would crash. But not yet. Touched down in Lae, and we met two of City Mission’s staff – Ricky and Remmie – who helped us cart our luggage, and drove us to the LCM compound, where we were greeted with a decorated gate, hand-written signs, and a shower of flower petals over the van as we drove up to the house. Exit van, and see a sea of faces, all come to welcome us. Calvin was so excited that he was jumping up and down saying, “We’re here! We’re here!” We were presented with a floral necklace (similar to the lays of Hawaii), and ushered into our house. We had arrived! All the waiting, all the frustration, and now a feeling best described as a mixture of thankfulness, relief, and happiness washed over us.

Just one of the beautiful flowers in our yard
As both Cheree and I have said to others, when you spend so long with your heart in another place, when you do get there, it quickly feels like the place you are meant to be. It kinda feels like home (although we are under no illusion about the pangs of homesickness which will likely come to visit). It hasn’t all been smooth sailing though. Apart from Madison’s teething problems (it seems she decided to cut two teeth at once, and suffers terribly from the pain), we’ve already had one of our childen announce that they don’t like PNG. Not all of the tears which fell that morning were his, as we explained that this is our home for now. A recurring theme in our prayers at the moment, is that we all find our place, find our rythym, here quickly. Fast forward to this week, skipping over the details of our inaugural trip into town, and a day spent at the licensing office and bank, and right now, we are mostly in a pretty good headspace. As sleeping in the heat is not always easy, and everyone is up and about by 630AM (as opposed to 730-8AM), some fatigue is taking its toll on the three boys. They do not help their cause, as they play hard and loud, as much as we let them. But some normalcy has settled in. Cheree has begun school work with Nikolas and Isaac, and tells me it is as if they didn’t even have a break. By lunch, they are done and spend the hottest part of the day playing under the house, or inside. Apart from schooling, Cheree is kept quite busy with all of the housework, and for the first few days of the week, I think she did more physical work than I did. There is no wearing clothes for two days in a row here, even for the little ones, so the laundry is a perpetual cycle,and it is now obvious to me why clothes do not last in this climate.
one of the kids bedrooms

dining/kitchen

living area

other side of living area


Meanwhile, I had three mornings spent in trips to the licensing office (one area where they beat Australia is that they print your license as soon as you have your photo taken, and you walk out with a plastic card to put in your wallet), which also served to help me find my bearings a little better (on Saturday we took a trip to the shops, and it took us twenty minutes to find one which should be reached in 5). No GPS in Lae, just experience and sense of direction. After lunch hour (12-1), I started working with the young men on one of the projects here. Thursday was my first full day on the tools, and we spent it marking out a large building for the second project we are working on (there are three main projects on the go at the moment – a fence around the plantation, a dormitory to house 120 young men, and a whole new compound to house the Children’s Crisis Center (Haus Clare). The dorm is nearly completed, with cladding going on the second storey now, but the Children’s Center is only just beginning. Over the last few days, we have made some great progress, with all of the staff and young men pulling together to get things done. The General Manager and Projects Manager (one man, two caps) from POM (Port Moresby) is also here to help us push things along, and we are hoping to get the majority done before he leaves in four weeks’ time. From here, he goes to Madang where City Mission hope to launch another center. Exciting times ahead, but the mountain looms. How do you climb a mountain? Carefully, and one step at a time. We also got to spend a little time with members of the Mission Board, as they were visiting the Reformed Ministries crew, which was nice – it added a few familiar faces to the growing ocean of unfamiliar ones. We are coming to realise how big a barrier the language really is, and it can be a little frustrating not being able to communicate what I need to. The young fellas are under instruction to teach me a few words and sentences, but even this is slow going (we had tried to learn some of the language before we came, but 1] we did not learn as much as we maybe could have, and 2] what we did learn, we learned slightly wrong, so the words we thought we knew, don’t register in our ears and minds). When I led a group in devotions, I tried some Tok Pisin and asked them if I had it right. They all said yes, but their faces told me no. I’m assured (by the nationals) that I will learn it quickly, and likely go through a stage of speaking Pinglish, but this too is a recurring theme in our prayers.
The start of the Childrens Orphanage (Haus Clare)



And now, after one week in this hot, humid, beautiful place they call Lae, we are exhausted, we are sweating, and we are happy to be right where we are meant to be. Again, we thank you for your support, and we thank God for giving us people willing to support us. Dave, Cheree, Nikolas, Isaac, Calvin, and Madison.

Monday, September 19, 2016

Support the van der Wals in Lae, PNG



Visas are sorted!


Last Monday, we received our passports back from Canberra Consulate:





5 of them had the visa labels printed, (Nikolas' had to be sent off to Brisbane to be sorted out, so we did that straight away).

After a phone call on Tuesday morning to ask for another form to be emailed (just one saying he was healthy and well and able to travel), we didn't hear anything further, until Friday, when we received another parcel in the post. Nikolas was allowed to open it:





After 9+ months of waiting (sometimes patiently, sometimes impatienly) we are thankful to announce that ALL of our passports and visas are now in our possession.

We booked our flights Saturday afternoon, Lord Willing, we leave Perth at 12:15 afternoon on Tuesday the 27th September 2016. We will arrive in Brisbane at 6:30pm, and spend the night in Brisbane, before leaving Australia at 10:30 am, arriving Port Moresby at 1:30pm, then arriving Lae at 4:45pm on the 28th September.

Thank you for your support and prayers, and we ask that you please keep us in your prayers, as we finalise our packing, and start our see-ya-laters!

Take care!

the van der Wals xx




A few people have asked for the link to support us financially: click on the 'Support Us' tab at the top of this blog page and it will take you to the form.

Thankyou!










Friday, September 2, 2016

August Update. In Short...still waiting!

August 24::

They say the night is darkest, just before the dawn, and without going into a whole heap of details, the last week has not been a particularly easy one.
At breakfast, our oldest asked when we would be going, so we prayed for patience, for trust, and for His Blessing.
Soon after, first light broke the horizon. A ray of sunshine pierced the sky, and began to chase the dark away. A call to say that our visas are approved (again), and to contact a consulate to ask when we could expect to have them in our sweaty little hands.
Could this be it?
We called. No answer.
Called again. No answer.
A third phone call, one part of my mind already resigning itself to the fact that we would not get through today. An answer.
The sun is up! Morning is here!
We have a good, gracious God, who hears our prayers.
We have been told to expect our passports back in our possession next week.
Praise the Lord!

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AUGUST 26::

Earlier this week, we had news that our visas were all approved, and that we would have them in our hands soon.
After all this time circling the runway, we were finally cleared to land. We cheered, as the plane began its descent.
Then, a phone call, as if the pilot were announcing we had been told to resume a holding pattern: one of the kid's visas had not been transmitted, and (much to his relief) we are not flying anywhere without him.
Phone calls and emails were made, to try and get this kink ironed out. As it stands, we have no clear answer. For all we know, it could have been transmitted today, but we have been unable to contact the people we need to speak with.
And so, for now, we circle, at 40,000 feet and holding, until such time as the last piece falls into place.
After the week we've had, this is a disappointment, but we are at peace with it (although we still appreciate your prayers). We know we are not doing this alone. We can only keep bringing it to Father.

I love the Lord, because he has heard
my voice and my pleas for mercy.
Because he inclined his ear to me,
therefore I will call on him as long as I live.
~ Psalm 116:1,2




We have since heard that Nikolas' visa is still in for processing in PNG immigration.  We have not been told how long it will take to process.

Wednesday, August 3, 2016

What we have learnt about Papua New Guinea

Here are somethings we have learnt together in 'school' lessons.


The flag of Papua New Guinea:  

*has red and black are the traditional colors
*has the golden bird of paradise as emblem
*has the white stars of the southern cross

Map of Papua New Guinea: 

*Country capital is Port Moresby. 
*it has lots of mountains, and rain forests
*it has tropical climate (wet season and a dry season)
*Transport in Papua New Guinea is limited due to the Mountainous terrain. 
http://www.ezilon.com/maps/images/oceania/political-map-of-PapGuinea.gif

(We will be going to LAE in the MOROBE province)


Languages

there are over 820 different languages in Papua New Guinea, with English, Papua New Guinean sign language, and Tok Pisin being more common.







We hope to make some of the information we learn into a 'lapbook' for the kids to view as they please.  I'll add photos when I can.

Lapbooking (according to Lapbooking 101) is:  ...project book or file folder, laid out in a creative manner, that fits in the child’s lap...

Updates on Visas



These are the last few updates as shared on Facebook (sorry for not adding them here sooner! I keep forgetting about this page!)

May 24
It's an interesting journey, being in a place of waiting (or, as a former colleague of mine put it, living life like a paper bag in the wind).
One job ended. It was always meant to be temporary.
I thought the time was upon us.
It wasn't to be.
Another job landed on my lap and, at the time, I didn't want to take it, but knew that I had to. It was as if our Father was saying, "You're here a while longer." Retrospectively, the resent towards beginning another job disappears, and thankfulness for providence takes its place. It wasn't what I wanted; it was what I needed.
And now, another temporary job ends. Such is the nature of construction. Such is the nature of being taken on, in a temporary role.
So, now what?
We wait, having still heard nothing more on our passports.
We wait, knowing that God will provide. Like He gave Abram a ram for a sacrifice, and like He gave myself more work when it was needed, we know that He will provide. All things come from His good hand.
I'm not going to pretend that this is easy going. The longer this drags out, the less it feels like we will ever get to Lae. The longer it takes, the harder it is to live without a plan.
Yet, we wait on the Lord. It's all we can do.

May 31
What's been happening?
Recently, I posted on Facebook:
It's an interesting journey, being in a place of waiting (or, as a former colleague of mine put it, living life like a paper bag in the wind).
One job ended. It was always meant to be temporary.
I thought the time was upon us.
It wasn't to be.
Another job landed on my lap and, at the time, I didn't want to take it, but knew that I had to. It was as if our Father was saying, "You're here a while longer." Retrospectively, the resent towards beginning another job disappears, and thankfulness for providence takes its place. It wasn't what I wanted; it was what I needed.
And now, another temporary job ends. Such is the nature of construction. Such is the nature of being taken on, in a temporary role.
So, now what?
We wait, having still heard nothing more on our passports.
We wait, knowing that God will provide. Like He gave Abram a ram for a sacrifice, and like He gave myself more work when it was needed, we know that He will provide. All things come from His good hand.
I'm not going to pretend that this is easy going. The longer this drags out, the less it feels like we will ever get to Lae. The longer it takes, the harder it is to live without a plan.
Yet, we wait on the Lord. It's all we can do.
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Since then, some progress has been made.
We discovered that upon being taken into the post office in Moresby to be sent us, our passports were promptly placed on a shelf and forgotten about.
So, they were taken back out of the office, and sent to us by courier. They should arrive soon, at which point we send them off again to be printed.
A recurring question we have had to deal with - and, truthfully, which we have both had to wrestle with, struggle with, and surrender in prayer - is whether maybe these delays are roadblocks from God; signs that we are not meant to travel to Lae. Some days, it seems it would be easiest to throw our hands in the air and give up. Some days, we nearly do.
Then, a sermon Sunday morning: wait on the Lord. Surrender it all to Him. Give up your desire to control. Wait.
A difficult conversation on Monday.
A heavy heart.
A prayer.
An answer.
We might not be there now. And that means we are not meant to be there now. But that does not mean we are not meant to be there ever, only that when we are meant to be, we will be.
I'm beginning to see more clearly, what Pastor Ian (a serving missionary in Lae) meant, all that time ago, when he said he covets the prayers of others, and while it seems somewhat audacious (for someone as self-reliant as myself) to ask for the prayers of others, I must ask.
Please, if you can, remember us in your prayers. Pray that we might get to Lae. Pray for patience. Pray for wisdom. Pray that His Will be done.

July 7
Why are there no updates? Why have you not heard what is happening?
Well, frankly, there is little to tell.
Waiting has become the norm for us, and right now we are OK with it. I say, "right now, we are OK, because there are times where we are not. Times when we need to gather our wits. Times when we need to readjust. Refocus. Take motorcycle rides to quiet places. Visit the Throne Room.

For now, we know we'll get there precisely when we are meant to. We know that we cannot "add a cubit to our stature" through endless worrying.
We pray constantly that we'll get to Lae, and we know that we have a heap of people praying along with us. For that, we are very thankful - and humbled. There have been times though, where this has come close to being the end goal, the final hurdle. Land in Lae, and we would have "arrived". Smooth sailing from there.
Obviously, that is quite a silly way to look at it, and we had to refocus. Yes, we want to get to Lae! But why? What drives us? What is the purpose of traveling there? I guess the Westminster Catechism answers those questions best:
"What is the chief end of man?
To glorify God."
So, we wait. And maybe our chief end is somehow worked into all this. Maybe (and it's not such a big maybe), we can glorify God by waiting on Him. Maybe a pastor of the Baptist kind had it right when he wrote that, "God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him."


NOW:
We do not have any news so definite as we had hoped: our passports are in Canberra now (having travelled more in six months than I have in my lifetime), and we expect that the visas should be inserted into them in the very near future, after having all necessary documents redirected to the Canberra office.
In the meantime, we hang on to the only Certainty, and ask for your prayers, especially in the immediate future as we wait to hear the outcome from the powers that be. Dave picks up work where he can, though it is a bit sporadic with the building industry having gone quiet.

Ill leave you with a couple photos Dave took earlier this week:
Madison after she woke up from a Sunday nap, and Calvin and Isaac learning together :)

This little one is not-so-little anymore!
One in less than 2 weeks, has been walking for over a month already,
and loves her brothers to bits (vise versa), is happiest outside, and has a horrible time teething.
sharing the tablet together playing 'Mathseeds' for some extra math practise.





































Over the last few months we...




...went to Scietech....
Isaacs Journal about the day (wrote this on his own)
 I love seeing their writing improve
Nik wrote a great journal too!



...designed things...and then built them....


Niks design of a toolbox for Calvin
started with a screwdriver..
it took too long, so went to the drill!
Dad cut the pieces, Nik is putting them together
 (dad is helping)


...finally visited RioTinto Naturescape in Kings Park...

Isaac being a Ninja, Calvin wondering if he would fit through
the log tunnel and Nik trying not to fall over in the creek 
Dad threw a boulder in front of the unsuspecting boys posing for a photo
 



















...still wait patiently for news of those visas!...